BEFORE SCREEN NAME: Frank_1_6

BEFORE WEBSITE: Match.com

BEFORE AD:

Hi I am a 39 year old accountant (I know sounds real exciting :-)  I am single, never been married and don't have any kids. I have a big very close family and often get “volunteered” to babysit my neices & nephews. I like to unwind by listening to Cd's (mostly rock/classic Rock) and reading a good book. I really enjoy traveling and have been all over the place. I went to Ireland for a great vacation last year and am thinking about visiting Italy this summer. I like to spend time with my friends at the local pub/bar having agood laugh. I also like to work out at my gym especially running. I like to cook and and experiment with new recipes. I also like to watch movies, especially comedies. I am looking for someone who has a good heart and is fun to be with. Someone with a cute smile.

BEFORE PHOTOS:

Closeup Photo:

Full Length Photo:

ONLINE DATING COACHES'
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ONLINE DATING COACHES'
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SCREEN NAME

“Your screen name is the very first thing I learn about you…
Will it WOW ME?”

“BEFORE” SCREEN NAME: Frank_1_6

Based upon your LISTS, you have a lot to offer! You've packaged yourself, however, with your accounting background – dry and factual.

Package yourself as your best friends see you — full of life, kind and cool!

Or… offer yourself as a responsible man ready to start a family. You're just what millions of women are looking for!

“AFTER” SCREEN NAME:

ONLINE DATING COACHES'
“AFTER”
WEBSITE

“You wouldn't wear your pajamas or go naked to the Oscars
and you wouldn't wear an evening gown or tux to bed…
so make sure you're wearing the right ad in the right place!”

“BEFORE” WEBSITES: Match.com

Dating is a numbers game – the more people you have to choose from, the more likely you'll find a compatible mate. Match.com advertises a data base of singles that puts it at the top of the numbers game. We definitely recommend it, but there are other big sites that are good at narrowing the available field based on specific preferences. If Match.com isn't working for you, you might try a trial membership at one of those sites (listed below).

Based upon your lists and your prior ad, you work out several times a week to keep in shape and like most of us, want a mate who's in shape too. Based on your interest in keeping fit, we suggest a specialty website that caters to fitness-minded singles!

“AFTER” WEBSITES:

ONLINE DATING COACHES'
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PHOTOS

“Choose a photo which will really look like you on your first date -
You don't want to disappoint!”

“AFTER” PHOTOS:

“After” Closeup Photo:

“After” Full Length Photo:

ONLINE DATING COACHES'
“AFTER”
AD

“Make sure your ad is the GLASS HALF FULL .
There will be time in emails and phone calls to reveal the half empty side
that everyone has!"

Don't forget that your ad isn't just about what you have to offer, it's also for women to see if they're the one for you. Every woman thinks that she has “…a good heart and is fun to be with,” or a “cute smile.”

Describe your future mate with more detail so that when she reads your ad, she'll think – “Wow, he's looking for someone exactly like me!”

From Beth, the lawyer: always spell-check for spelling and grammatical errors.

AND THE MOMENT YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR…

Your REVISED AD from the ONLINE DATING COACHES!

Single world traveler desires family vacations!

Are you looking for a responsible Clark Kent during the week and a fun loving Clark Kent on weekends? I'm no Superman, but my friends think I'm a super man! I'm a single accountant, I've never been married and I have no kids, but I'm ready to start a family with the right woman. We both love to travel and are close to our large families! I just traveled to Ireland and my favorite experience was [briefly describe]. This summer, I want to see Italy, particularly [say where you want to go and what you want to see there]. I'm Irish Catholic, moderate in both my religion and my politics, looking for a woman who desires a serious relationship leading to marriage and a couple of children. That's the American Dream and we both deserve it! On weekends, when I'm not taking my many nieces and nephews to the movies – my favorite movie is Mallrats – I like to go to the gym and then cook dinner. I'm great at the grill, and I usually cook up something healthy but delicious! My specialty is [describe dish] along with a great bottle of [describe wine or beer that matches the dish]. After dinner, I put on my favorite CD – [name your favorite] and relax. I like to read while I listen to music, and just finished [name the book]. I'm open to new experiences with a woman who's responsible but considers herself a free spirit like myself. If this sounds like the life you've been imagining for yourself, I'd love to hear from you! No reply without a photo.

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BEFORE SCREEN NAME: ukroses

BEFORE WEBSITE: Match.com

BEFORE AD:

I grew up in London, England and moved to California when I was 17. I am an optimistic person who is funny, intelligent, affectionate, communicative, loyal, practical and open minded. I am very giving, caring and honest. For fun I like to go to the movies, theater, restaurants, read, walk, yoga, tennis. Someone who has similar qualities to me (and differences too)!

BEFORE PHOTOS:

ONLINE DATING COACHES'
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SCREEN NAME

“Your screen name is the very first thing I learn about you…
Will it WOW ME?”

“BEFORE” SCREEN NAME: ukroses

We're well-traveled, intelligent women who didn't know what your screen name meant! You want to keep it both very, very simple and ask a male friend – does this WOW you?

Are you British? Or are you an American who was raised in the UK? And what is the significance of roses? Whatever you use as your screen name should be explained in your ad. And another question it raises – are you looking for a Brit, or is an Anglophile good enough? Your screen name is the very first thing a man will learn about you, but it can't stop there - you need to fully explain it in your ad.

Based upon your LISTS, with that in mind, we have these suggestions:

“AFTER” SCREEN NAME:

ONLINE DATING COACHES'
“AFTER”
WEBSITE

“You wouldn't wear your pajamas or go naked to the Oscars
and you wouldn't wear an evening gown or tux to bed…
so make sure you're wearing the right ad in the right place!”

“BEFORE” WEBSITES: Match.com

Based upon your lists, your #1 mistake in men is picking men with commitment issues! Since you don't mind dating men with children, why not add a specialty website which caters to single fathers?

Your spirituality is open, but you also appreciate your cultural heritage. There are a number of sites that cater to the Jewish religion, but the largest is JDate, and for someone who's more spiritual than religious, we recommend selecting from the largest site – so you're more likely to find a casual observer.

But don't stop there…if either of these specialty sites don't work, remember our “fishing hole” analogy – no nibbles, move on! Try a variety of specialty sites based upon your interests, whether it's social or a physical activity you enjoy.

“AFTER” WEBSITES:

ONLINE DATING COACHES'
“AFTER”
PHOTOS

“Choose a photo which will really look like you on your first date -
You don't want to disappoint!”

When you take new photos, make sure you mix them up a bit in clothing styles and attitudes.  Take one how you would look on a first date if you met up on a Friday night after work, and one if you met up on a Saturday for brunch.

Make sure to ask a MALE friend who's similar to a man you'd like to meet if he would want to contact you after seeing your photos.  Don't do this alone!

“AFTER” PHOTOS:

“After” Closeup Photo:

“After” Full Length Photo:

ONLINE DATING COACHES'
“AFTER”
AD

“Make sure your ad is the GLASS HALF FULL .
There will be time in emails and phone calls to reveal the half empty side
that everyone has!"

What I like to see is someone who's clearly identifying what they did last week, or last month. Who DOESN'T like music, museums, travel, movies, books, etc? But pepper your description with the RECENT experiences that made an impact on you!

AND THE MOMENT YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR…

Your REVISED AD from the ONLINE DATING COACHES!

Genuine British Rose is the Real Thing!

I'm the Real Thing if you desire a fun, but laid-back, world-traveling, British transplant who friends describe as compassionate, intelligent and loyal. I moved to beautiful Northern California from [be more specific than England as it's more interesting] when I was 17. I love taking advantage of all that California has to offer, especially hiking, yoga and tennis. My favorite hike is up [name of canyon], where at the end you look over the [ocean/valley/mountains]. One of my favorite activities is eating out – but it doesn't have to be pricey! Let's discover our local Indian, Thai and Italian restaurants and dream about traveling to those countries! Probably because I grew up in the UK, I love to travel and try to explore other lands as often as I can afford! I just returned from Hong Kong and my favorite site was [name] and my favorite dish was [name]. If you desire a woman who knows what she wants – a compassionate, intelligent and loyal man who loves family life like Liam Neeson – then I'm your Genuine British Rose!

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BEFORE SCREEN NAME: Couldn't think of one she liked

BEFORE WEBSITE: eHarmony

BEFORE AD:

If you are looking for and comfortable with an independent woman who loves to live a peaceful life, let's meet! I am just as happy in a business setting, as I am self-employed, a social setting, like dancing or a dinner party as I am spending a quiet evening at home cooking dinner, talking or watching a movie. I was born and raised in Los Angeles and still think it's the best place to live! I am very much a spiritual woman who attends church regularly.

I am laid back and flexible, but I to keep balance by keeping active and seeing friends and family or just spending time keeping busy. Intimacy and being affectionate are important to me. I relax by taking a walk on the beach or spending time at the park. I love to travel, download music, work on my condo and attend local cultural events or museums.

BEFORE PHOTOS:

ONLINE DATING COACHES'
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ONLINE DATING COACHES'
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SCREEN NAME

“Your screen name is the very first thing I learn about you…
Will it WOW ME?”

“BEFORE” SCREEN NAME: Couldn't think of one she liked.

Every one of us is unique. Think of all the vanity license plates you see on cars – we all have something special about us, or a special interest, that offers a window into our personalities. Let your screen name reveal yours!

Based on your lists, it's clear you've got a “flow” to you – you're relaxed and low-key, but also social, animated and active. Your spirituality and ethnicity are also important to you.

With that in mind, we have these suggestions:

“AFTER” SCREEN NAME:

ONLINE DATING COACHES'
“AFTER”
WEBSITE

“You wouldn't wear your pajamas or go naked to the Oscars
and you wouldn't wear an evening gown or tux to bed…
so make sure you're wearing the right ad in the right place!”

“BEFORE” WEBSITES: eHarmony

Since you've done all the work on eHarmony, but never posted, go ahead and jump in – sign up and post your new ad from the Online Dating Coaches in the “About Me” section, in paragraph 14: “Is there any additional information you would like your matches to know about you?”

Also, check out a specialized website which focuses on your interests, like family, your Latina heritage, etc. Check online using the search words Latin or Church and online dating.

“AFTER” WEBSITES:

ONLINE DATING COACHES'
“AFTER”
PHOTOS

“Choose a photo which will really look like you on your first date -
You don't want to disappoint!”

When I look at how you describe yourself in your list ABOUT ME, I think casual and festive. Pick clothes that emphasize your relaxed nature yet show some of your spice. You want to show that you can get things done, but also let your hair down when it's time to be social. If you post more than 1 ad, make sure you use different photos – they shouldn't all be head shots – mix it up with some full length and action shots!

“AFTER” PHOTOS:

“After” Closeup Photo:

“After” Full Length Photo:

ONLINE DATING COACHES'
“AFTER”
AD

“Make sure your ad is the GLASS HALF FULL .
There will be time in emails and phone calls to reveal the half empty side
that everyone has!"

Your ABOUT ME list is crucial in creating your ad, especially the question, “I asked 3 of my close friends for 3 adjectives to describe me.” Your friends find you funny, dedicated and supportive, so think of some examples where you shine in those areas. Be specific. What did you do recently that someone found supportive or funny. If you can't think of anything, ask those friends who described you. As we say in our book, “DON'T DO THIS ALONE.” Invite your friends to help you and make it fun!

AND THE MOMENT YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR…

Your REVISED AD from the ONLINE DATING COACHES!

Groove With Me As We Relax on the Weekend

Are you looking for a dedicated, professional, woman who's already raised her children and is now looking for a partner to groove with on the weekends? I'm an Italian/Mexican blend which you'll find in my love of family –- I have two grown daughters; my love of good food — a romantic evening for me is to cook [name your favorite dish] and cuddle; and my love of [God, church, spirituality, however you prefer describing] — we can combine all three on Sundays with church, brunch and catching a movie with close friends and/or family. I've been wanting to see [name a movie]. My friends describe me as funny, supportive, and dedicated. They probably say this because recently [briefly describe something funny, supportive and/or dedicated that you did]. It's no surprise I'm looking for a man with those qualities also! If your friends would describe you as a stable, strong and loving man who's looking for a partner to enjoy all the blessings in life, please email with recent photos!

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BEFORE SCREEN NAME: Sharon

BEFORE WEBSITE: Chemistry.com

BEFORE AD:

I am a hard working girl who got where I am all on my own and am pretty proud of it. Looking for someone to be my best friend, lover and playmate. I am not too complicated and not looking for a puzzle. I respect myself and expect that from you. And I would not be true to myself if I did not mention that at this time, my best friend is my dog. However, I do have enough of me to share with someone, plus my dog.

BEFORE PHOTOS:

ONLINE DATING COACHES'
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ONLINE DATING COACHES'
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SCREEN NAME

“Your screen name is the very first thing I learn about you…
Will it WOW ME?”

“BEFORE” SCREEN NAME: Sharon

We advise against using your real name in your ad. The internet provides you access to lots of people – which is great for increasing your dating pool, but it also provides lots of people access to you. You want to be mindful of that, and always maintain some degree of anonymity before posting any information about yourself on the web. Even more importantly, posting your name doesn't actually indicate what's special about you. Remember, you get one chance to make a great first impression…everything about your ad should reinforce the impression you're trying to make!

Based upon your lists, we suggest the following:

“AFTER” SCREEN NAME:

ONLINE DATING COACHES'
“AFTER”
WEBSITE

“You wouldn't wear your pajamas or go naked to the Oscars
and you wouldn't wear an evening gown or tux to bed…
so make sure you're wearing the right ad in the right place!”

“BEFORE” WEBSITES: Chemistry.com

Chemistry.com is a new service provided by Match.com, one of the most popular online dating sites, and with your revised ad, you should get plenty of replies from acceptable candidates. However, don't feel like you can only post on one website at a time. We recommend posting on one mainstream online dating site and one special interest.

From your lists, it's clear that your dog is an important part of your life. We completely understand!

We suggest also posting an ad in a site for animal lovers! In our April Newsletter, we highlighted AnimalAttraction.com.

“AFTER” WEBSITES:

ONLINE DATING COACHES'
“AFTER”
PHOTOS

“Choose a photo which will really look like you on your first date -
You don't want to disappoint!”

We always suggest that you take new photos for your ad: pick clothes in which you feel comfortable, smile, and wear the same make-up you'd wear on a first date. In other words, no glamour shots! No old photos from a party or wedding where you looked your most fabulous and dressed up!

Why not your best? Because you want to look just as you will when you show up for your first date – where you'll want him to be pleasantly surprised, not disappointed.

“AFTER” PHOTOS:

“After” Closeup Photo:

“After” Full Length Photo:

ONLINE DATING COACHES'
“AFTER”
AD

“Make sure your ad is the GLASS HALF FULL .
There will be time in emails and phone calls to reveal the half empty side
that everyone has!"

Your “BEFORE” ad is very much like your “BEFORE” “picture” – I don't get any sense about you!

Based upon your lists, we'll rework it with lots of visualizations that will attract men!

The ad does seem very non-specific…your personal ad is a sales tool…it should clearly describe who you are and what you have to offer. For help, go back to your lists to find information that can transform your ad from a generic note to a clear picture of success.

AND THE MOMENT YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR…

Your REVISED AD from the ONLINE DATING COACHES!

Self Made Professional Seeks Same for Days of Wine and...

I'm very proud of all that I've accomplished in my professional life and looking for a man to share amazing moments which include travel to [list a favorite place], tasting wines like [list some favorite wines], indulging in weekend activities with our pets like [list a favorite activity with your dog like hiking or walking in the park and meeting other dog lovers]. Do you desire a woman who doesn't have children and likes it that way? I'm looking for a fun, responsible, intelligent partner for a relationship leading to marriage who desires the same! My friends describe me as devoted and personable with a self-deprecating wit. Together we can create a wonderful life with all the perks that two professionals with no kids get to enjoy! Dog lovers only please.

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BEFORE SCREEN NAME: RobertVM

BEFORE WEBSITE: People2People.com

BEFORE AD:

Attractive handsome man seeking attractive high class lady

I am a very handsome man. In my middle 30's who is looking for a lady who is wild with a passionate intimate side. I published a book dedicated to the lost of my brother last Memorial Day weekend 2005. My heart has been empty since. I lost my Brother, best friend and buddy and been trying to find just even a friend who would be there for me when I get lonely and miss him.

Adventure side: I am in my prime. So keep in mind that I woud love a partner even if we were just friends to conquer our fantasies to the deepest dream ever. I have muscles in the right place and know how to use them more than you can possibly handle. Always had a thing for public affection and being intimate in a public place. Being caught is only the turn on. I love tattoos, pierced belly buttons and show of skin. I love to write poetry, listen to music, watch movies in the theature or at home. Snuggle is a must in my blanket. Someone who would enjoy and love to play video games as well with me is a must. Blues game during hockey season and going on walks, holding hands, french kissing under the stars and full moon. Loves to listen to Sirius Radio.

BEFORE PHOTOS:

ONLINE DATING COACHES'
“AFTERS”

ONLINE DATING COACHES'
“AFTER”
SCREEN NAME

“Your screen name is the very first thing I learn about you…
Will it WOW ME?”

“BEFORE” SCREEN NAME: RobertVM

Based upon your LISTS, especially the very revealing “I asked 3 of my close friends for 3 adjectives to describe me” and your ad, we would create a screen name around the word PASSIONATE or MASCULINE.

The word both describes the non-sexual passion for life you have and the very sexual nature you describe in your ad!

“AFTER” SCREEN NAME:

ONLINE DATING COACHES'
“AFTER”
WEBSITE

“You wouldn't wear your pajamas or go naked to the Oscars
and you wouldn't wear an evening gown or tux to bed…
so make sure you're wearing the right ad in the right place!”

“BEFORE” WEBSITES: People2People.com

Perhaps where you've posted your ad accounts for your lack of success. You've posted a very sexual ad in what we call the COMPANY FAMILY PICNIC WEBSITE. Those are websites where you should post only those things you would feel comfortable talking about with strangers at a Company Family Picnic.

We suggest creating TWO ads. One for your current site, people2people.com for locals in your area, and a second, more sexually explicit ad for websites that emphasize sexual partners, instead of potential buddies.

Search online dating and sex and see the sites that come up. Check them out using our ABOUT THE ADS list.

“AFTER” WEBSITES:

ONLINE DATING COACHES'
“AFTER”
PHOTOS

“Choose a photo which will really look like you on your first date -
You don't want to disappoint!”

Just as you want to see realistic photos of her, be sure to post realistic photos of you – full-length with the sun in your face (no shadows). Post at least two, with at least one nice smiling photo.

“AFTER” PHOTOS:

“After” Closeup Photo:

“After” Full Length Photo:

ONLINE DATING COACHES'
“AFTER”
AD

“Make sure your ad is the GLASS HALF FULL .
There will be time in emails and phone calls to reveal the half empty side
that everyone has!"

Your ad mentions a lot of the HALF EMPTY elements that we all have but are depressing for a first viewing. As tragic as your brother's death was for you, he gave you a gift by bringing out the author within you.

You have JUDGMENT words in your header. High-class is very judgmental and your desire for someone attractive and high-class sounds just plain silly. Who's looking for an ugly, low-class person?

Write what YOU have to offer! “Ad” is short for advertising. You don't see Coke and Nike ads expressing their desire for customers buying their products or investors buying their shares. No, you see Coke and Nike expressing what they have to offer you… satisfying refreshment, playing better in sports, etc. They get customers by expressing what they have to offer.

Take a look at your lists as you recreate your ads. Make sure the important points are in there – she must have a photo, and want casual dating, NOT a serious relationship. If her age is a factor, make sure that's in your ad and on the website if offered.

AND THE MOMENT YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR…

Your REVISED AD from the ONLINE DATING COACHES!

We suggest this revised ad for your People2People.com site.
If you decide to post another ad on a sexier dating site,
come back to us with that site and we'll help you!
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Passionate author will write you poetry and walk on the wild side!

Are you looking for a man who's not afraid to be both masculine and reveal a loving, passionate side? Not ready for a serious relationship yet, but looking for someone who's also a go-getter and takes all that life has to offer, both the good and the bad, and makes it wonderful. I have a secure day job and I'm a published author on Amazon! Are you a busy woman seeking a busy man who will stop and indulge in 48 hours of non-stop fun on the weekends? I don't have kids, so if you want to play all weekend going to concerts, hockey games, listening to the Blues in our favorite bar OR… just snuggling on the couch with a stack of our favorite DVDs, I'm your man! I look like the type of guy you'd be proud to bring home to your parents and introduce to your friends, but I'm very hip and love to try new things. You'll find both Howard Stern and Kelly Clarkson playing on my Sirius radio. Doesn't matter if you look like a Playboy model or a Sunday School Teacher as long you love yourself and enjoy giving and receiving affection! No reply without a photo.

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BEFORE SCREEN NAME: Newyorqina

BEFORE WEBSITE: Match.com

BEFORE AD:

Life is good. I live life with passion, a positive attitude, humor and style. I'm a fun, honest and loyal friend. I enjoy outdoor activities: golf, tennis, hiking, skiing and horse back riding (though I haven't done this in a while). I'm a tranplanted New Yorker (thus, newyorqina) who's been living in southern CA. for 7 years and loving it. I love being able to drive down to Rosarito one weekend, ski Mammouth the next, and camp at Death Valley the next weekend. I can dress up to go to a black tie affair, or am just as comfortable dressing down for roller blading along the beach. I love dancing to all music but particularly salsa. A the end of a long work week, I'm happy to let you pick the restaurant and make weekend plans. I love to travel and explore new places, foods and cultures. The best times are spent together, enjoying the company of good friends and family, sharing good food and good wine. The other side of me is the professional who enjoys the challenges of work but strives to balance the personal with the professional side.

BEFORE PHOTOS:

ONLINE DATING COACHES'
“AFTERS”

ONLINE DATING COACHES'
“AFTER”
SCREEN NAME

“Your screen name is the very first thing I learn about you…
Will it WOW ME?”

“BEFORE” SCREEN NAME: Newyorqina

It's not clear what Newyorqina means. You have one chance to make a great first impression. Create a screen name that advertises what you love to do and more importantly, what it is about you that will attract a great man!

From your lists, you write that you are social, athletic and love to cook. Those are three things that many men would love to share with you!

“AFTER” SCREEN NAME:

ONLINE DATING COACHES'
“AFTER”
WEBSITE

“You wouldn't wear your pajamas or go naked to the Oscars
and you wouldn't wear an evening gown or tux to bed…
so make sure you're wearing the right ad in the right place!”

“BEFORE” WEBSITES: Match.com

Match.com is one of the most popular online dating sites, and with your revised ad, you should get plenty of replies from acceptable candidates. However, don't feel like you can only post on one website at a time. We recommend posting on one mainstream online dating site and one special interest.

You love your Latin heritage, do you know there are over 800 online dating websites? Check online using the search words “latin” and “online dating.”

“AFTER” WEBSITES:

ONLINE DATING COACHES'
“AFTER”
PHOTOS

“Choose a photo which will really look like you on your first date -
You don't want to disappoint!”

There is no scenario where you should crop an existing photo and post. ALWAYS take a NEW photo, precisely for your ad, that highlights the characteristics you identify in your ad.

Why? Because when you post a photo with others in it – you don't know how others perceive it - will they drag you down? Look better than you?

And never post a photo where you're holding a cocktail… whether it's you or not, it doesn't play well.

“AFTER” PHOTOS:

“After” Closeup Photo:

“After” Full Length Photo:

ONLINE DATING COACHES'
“AFTER”
AD

“Make sure your ad is the GLASS HALF FULL .
There will be time in emails and phone calls to reveal the half empty side
that everyone has!"

Be sure to spell check your ad before you post! Not to be a nit-picker, but there were several typos in your ad… as we say, you have just one chance to make a great first impression! And if proofing isn't your strong suit, then have a friend come over and take a look. Make it fun! Now let's get down to brass tacks - based on your lists, I'd make 2 other changes – talk about your career and its importance to you earlier in your ad, and reference your spiritual side. Remember to highlight what it is that makes you special.

AND THE MOMENT YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR…

Your REVISED AD from the ONLINE DATING COACHES!

You Choose the Golf Course, I'll Cook the Main Course!

Are you looking for a professional woman with a passion for her work, a strong spiritual side and a real sense of adventure? I have a great job – in fact it's my career - in entertainment, and while I work hard at the office, I play equally as hard on the weekends! On any given weekend, you'll find me on the golf course, a tennis court, hiking in the mountains, skiing at Mammoth, dancing the salsa, on the beach at Rosarito and even camping at Death Valley! I'm not always on the run…my friends love my cooking and nothing makes me happier than preparing [your favorite dish] and opening a bottle of [name your favorite wine] for a relaxing evening at home – with or without a group of our friends and family. And on Sunday, I slow down and make time for church. A transplanted New Yorker, I've been living in southern California for 7 years, and love it. My friends say it's as though I've always lived here. Life is good.

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